Im going to my grandfathers wake today but i dont own any dress pants. Are black jeans and a nice dress shirt ok to wear? Im not sure if i,have much of a choice

Any dark tone is fine, and it doesn't have to be dark for all pieces. You can wear navy or brown or even grey to a wake. If a woman, either wear a pantsuit or skirt with blouse. Dressing for a wake is all about respect; respect for the deceased, and respect for the family. This means dressing in a toned-down manner.

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