I don't want to look too little kid-ish but don't want to look trashy either. If not, and suggestions??

I think its a cute dress for your age. It's not super grown up but nor is it too childish. Pair it with nice jewelry.

Don't like it either way to kiddish.

I think it's cute. I'd wear it to an eighth grade graduation.

I think it looks kind of kiddish I wouldn't like it for eight grade grad